Effective Prayer Points for Husband and Wife

Prayer points listed here do not replaced how you need to be guarded by the Spirit of the Lord in your prayers time and in your closet. Let the Lord guide you.

Luke 18:1  And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint; 

In this passage of the scripture, Christ gave us an example of how our prayer life should be, we should have a persistence prayer life.

But unfortunately, it is when we are in the storm that some of us learn how to pray which is a good thing also, but we should not only pray when we are in the storm, but we need to pray more when we are calmed. We should not only have prayer points, but we need to have prayer life.

In this article, I want you understand the importance of praying persistently for your spouse, and the daily effective prayer points for that you can use in your prayer life. I believe that prayers should be natural being guarded by the Holy Spirit.

Ephesians 6:18  Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; 

There are some who are learning to pray, and they will need help on how to pray effectively and what they can use persistently in their prayer time. Every married person needs to pray for his spouse, because everyone needs prayer. We are all in this spiritual warfare together, we need prayer not only to safe guard us, but also to help us learn to be more closer to our God.


He is our God, and his throne is approachable, and that is why we are admonished to come bodly before his throne.

Hebrews 4:16  Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need. 

These are not lucky charms prayer requests, but biblical prayer points that you can use in your prayers time with the Lord.

  1. God should help your spouse to Love Him
    There are so many worldly attraction in the world today, and it takes a spouse who love the Lord that would not be deceived by the things around him.Therefore, you need to pray that his love for the Lord will grow more and more. And if he is not a Christian, your number one prayer request is for him to be saved. I believe that you would not want your spouse to die and go to Hell.
  1. God should help your spouse to fulfill the God given obligation.
    Bible commands husband and wife to love one another, and you prayer requests should be on God helping him/her to fulfill his role and duty and vice versa.
  2. God should should help your spouse to love the children.
    This is really important. Some spouse stay together because they feared that if they separate, they future of the children is in mess.

4.God should help your spouse to be strong physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritual.

You know the implication of all these things, if they are not there, the home will be in problem.

  1. God should keep the intruder out of your marital home.
    God hears and answers prayers when his children hearken to his word, and do what he says.
    If you are praying that God keep the intruders out of your marriage, then don’t play around the wrong people that will intrude into your home, and destroy it.

Effective prayer life is the desire to know God himself. And this is where our prayer life should be. And I pray that the Lord would give you the desire of your heart according to his will.

These prayer points are needed daily in our our home, it will make husband and wife stronger, and their home godly to the glory of God

1John 5:14-15  And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us: 
And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him.